tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6821761188549873440.post726109912575805122..comments2021-11-13T17:57:01.492-08:00Comments on Claudia Bites: The Power of WomanClaudia Biteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14712143763056800754noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6821761188549873440.post-92155920301354997252012-04-17T05:28:23.632-07:002012-04-17T05:28:23.632-07:00hi there and thank you for your positive comments....hi there and thank you for your positive comments. Many of us live with a very uncertain sense of who we truly are as women, physically and sexually, never mind mentally! We live (as do men) surrounded by very powerful and persuasive ideas of what makes a 'real' woman and get locked into media notions of what we should be wearing, shaving, fucking, expressing etc etc. Porn does it too in different ways, so can be no more of a radical departure than mainstream expression. The point is that we have to get to the point where we can find the courage to call the bullshit, however that can be tricky for so many of us, a lone wolf is never as strong as a pack, and many of us run as 'outsiders' if our views are considered too risky or contraversial. I've only just come to a point in life where I am liberating myself from other people's expectations, binds and fears, to discover my own voice in that. It's a lifelong work. I think that if you're 20 and looking for answers this is great, just make sure to harness it rather than let it run you! Many women act up and act out and lose themselves in the process, to substances, to sexual expression that our chosen partners don't deserve....consciousness is the key I think. <br /><br />If you feel good dressing up and playing the attraction game then that's fine in my book but as soon as it doesn't feel good, stop, or at the very least make sure you know which games and by whose rules you play. The power of love is mighty and doesn't have to be all devoid of sass and sex either!!!Claudia Biteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14712143763056800754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6821761188549873440.post-89952955100760108462012-03-23T12:23:23.030-07:002012-03-23T12:23:23.030-07:00I've just discovered your blog through a frien...I've just discovered your blog through a friend, and I've got to say I fuckin' love what you have to say. I'm 20 years old... sort of at the point where I feel like I have to choose my identity and run with it... everyone seems to have a solid idea of who they are and I'm floating. I go out on weekends dressed up in ways that I think will make people look at me, because I feel like men looking at me with lust will validate my existence somehow. This sickens me, I want to feel beautiful to myself and not feel like others, especially random men at parties, need to think I'm sexy. I've been needing to share this for a while, and felt this was the perfect venue. Hoping you'll have some input, you're awesome Claudia! :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6821761188549873440.post-28402845730267090152011-10-22T10:53:19.058-07:002011-10-22T10:53:19.058-07:00Hello H, thanks for commenting. I agree though the...Hello H, thanks for commenting. I agree though the paradox for women is so often that although sexually powerful/aware/awake women could indeed rule the universe (!) as we function so much on an emotional basis, it can be hard to 'hold' that power in my view. Practice makes perfect though hey ;-)Claudia Biteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14712143763056800754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6821761188549873440.post-15326808496105691322011-10-20T13:43:16.853-07:002011-10-20T13:43:16.853-07:00From my point of view, a woman who understands the...From my point of view, a woman who understands the power she possesses over men because of her sexuality is not only a beautiful thing but a scary one.... she could rule the universe, well mine anywaysHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12495248797047063852noreply@blogger.com